They should also know that if the first adult doesn’t respond appropriately, they can tell another trusted adult.
Sometimes one conversation isn’t enough.
What Schools Can Do
Schools play a central role in preventing bullying.
Effective approaches can include:
Clear behavioral expectations
Consistent enforcement of rules
Adequate supervision
Accessible reporting systems
Staff training
Counseling support
Communication with families
Follow-up after incidents
Protection against retaliation
The response should focus on safety and accountability.
The Importance of Follow-Up
One meeting isn’t necessarily enough.
After a bullying incident is addressed, adults should check in with the student.
Ask:
“How are things going now?”
“Do you feel safe?”
“Has anything changed?”
“Is anything happening that we need to know about?”
A child may initially say everything is fine because they are relieved that adults intervened.
