But they can remain attentive.
Potential warning signs include:
Suddenly not wanting to attend school
Frequent unexplained physical complaints
Damaged clothing or belongings
Lost possessions
Changes in eating or sleeping habits
Falling grades
Withdrawal from friends
Anxiety about using a phone or social media
Sudden mood changes
Avoiding particular places
Fear of certain students
None of these signs automatically proves bullying.
But they can provide a reason to start a conversation.
How to Ask Without Making the Child Shut Down
The way adults ask questions matters.
Instead of:
“Who is bullying you?”
try:
“I’ve noticed you’ve seemed quieter lately. Is something happening at school?”
Instead of:
“Why didn’t you tell me?”
try:
“I’m glad you’re telling me now. What can I do to help?”
