L’humour comme bouclier
Sarcasm turns into armor. Rather than revealing one's insecurities, one prefers to hide them under humorous barbs. Behind these seemingly light-hearted jokes is often the deep fear of being rejected or betrayed.
Half-hearted love stories
When displays of affection have been lacking during childhood, emotional closeness can become a source of anxiety. Consequences: panic fear of commitment, tendency to sabotage relationships or difficulty letting go. The desire to love exists, but mistrust remains constantly on the alert.
The Savior Syndrome
Some, having experienced lack, become purveyors of affection. They offer others what they have not received: attention, support, human warmth. A touching generosity, but one that can lead to emotional exhaustion.
The difficulty of anchoring oneself
