I went to their Thanksgiving. I let Adelaide put her hand on my stomach. I said thank you for the crib.
And on the day I went into labour, at eleven weeks and four days before I expected to, Beatrix Nwankwo was on the first page of my hospital notes as the person to call.
PART 4 — THIRTY-SIX HOURS
Here is why I signed, and it is three things.
The first is that you cannot do what they were trying to do at a bedside.
A parent in this state cannot contract away custody of a three-day-old in a leather folder. Relinquishment of parental rights is a court process with a statutory waiting period, specific formalities, and — for a child that age — protections that exist precisely because women are asked to sign things three days after surgery.
That instrument was worth nothing the moment it was drafted. Beatrix had told me in the September exactly what such a document would look like if it ever appeared, because she had seen it before.