My wife quietly took my father off our Thanksgiving guest list. When I asked why, she barely hesitated.



It was about what Dad represented to her.

Rough hands.

Work clothes.

Factory shifts.

A man who spent his life fixing things instead of talking about them.

A man who didn’t fit into the invisible social ranking her family seemed to carry around.

I was still holding the carving knife.

I carefully set it down on the counter.