It derives from it:
An invaluable inner freedom;
More adult relationships, marked by respect and harmony;
A deep knowledge of himself... and by extension, of his partner;
An ability to love without excessive dependence or insecurity.
He no longer seeks to fill a gap. His wish is simply to share his daily life with a person who contributes to his happiness — and whom he makes happy in return.
Because sometimes, authentic love doesn't really begin... than at the moment when one ceases to need it in order to feel that one exists fully.